The Salvation Army has launched the free weekly sessions at its community centre in Chapel Street, Gorse Hill, to help people coping with the loss of a loved one.
The Friendship, Hope and Healing Bereavement Café opened on Friday 18 September after staff identified a gap in support available to grieving residents in central Swindon.
The idea came about after a man visited the centre following the unexpected death of his partner.
Despite seeking help elsewhere, he faced lengthy waits for support when all he wanted was someone to talk to.
Staff at The Salvation Army spent time supporting him over the following weeks, prompting discussions about how they could help others facing similar circumstances.
While bereavement services are available through local hospices, some are limited to families whose loved ones received their care.
Other support groups are based further away, including in West Swindon, Royal Wootton Bassett and Marlborough.
Captain Theresa Torr, who leads The Salvation Army in Gorse Hill, said:
“Grief has no timetable. Loss happens to all of us and we react to it in different ways.
“Being available for those experiencing loss is the kindest way of helping them cope and also heal from the pain.
“The gentleman who inspired this project simply needed someone to talk to. The Bereavement Café is our practical way as a church and community centre of being there for those among us who are grieving and reminding people that you don’t have to carry this burden alone.”
The café takes place every Friday between 10am and 12.30pm, with visitors able to drop in without booking or paying.
People can share memories of loved ones, discuss their experiences or simply enjoy a cup of tea and some company.
There is no pressure to discuss bereavement, and everyone is welcome regardless of how long ago they experienced a loss.
Community Centre Manager Hayley Purnell said:
“Some people may simply want a reason to leave the house, while others may wish to talk, share memories, and remember their loved one.
“We are not counsellors, but we are experienced in offering a warm welcome, practical support, and compassionate listening.
“Both Theresa and I have experienced the loss of loved ones and we understand many of the emotions that accompany bereavement.”
Captain Torr, who has years of experience in pastoral care, leads the informal sessions, where tea and biscuits are provided.
The café joins several existing services at the Gorse Hill centre, including children’s activities, a Community Support Hub and weekly groups for adults.
Organisers hope it will help reduce the loneliness and isolation experienced by people who have lost loved ones, particularly those without close family or friends nearby.
Further information about The Salvation Army and its community services is available at www.salvationarmy.org.uk.
